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Fun with Trains, Grandpa Serves Timeout

No Comments » Written on Friday, January 27, 2012, at 10:41pm EST, by
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Today we had our ups and downs. The trains ended up in timeout, but we had a good time playing with them until the little fellow got tired and hungry and melted down.

Grandpa brought us breakfast this morning and then returned to install some hooks for us to store our water hose outside. The hooks had been were installed but weren’t being used at his house and had rusted over the years. Grandpa got rid of the rust and painted the hooks black and now they look great.

Grandpa had to serve a timeout today, too. When he brought us breakfast he discovered that Baybay’s Bo biscuit was missing from the bag. He got angry and said the word stupid, which is first and only word Baybay has been warned not to use. Grandpa’s use of the word didn’t escape Baybay’s notice. As soon as Sheriff Baybay heard Grandpa utter the word, he exclaimed, “Ooooo, he say dat werd!” Poor Grandpa had to serve his first timeout in sixty-four years.

Today was Baybay’s first day with his new HO-scale, Digital Command Control-equipped Diesel and Spencer engines. Diesel and Spencer are both Thomas & Friends characters. We bought these engines a few weeks ago and waited for our local train store to receive and install DCC decoders into them. With DCC the little fellow can have multiple engines running around the same track and maintain independent control over each. Separate remote controls (called throttles) are available that will let us operate trains together on the same track. One person can control one train and another person can control another. Train speeds, sounds, coupling, braking, lights, and track switches may be controlled using DCC.

Max was so excited. Actually, so was I. I’ve never set up a DCC-operated train set before and therefore have limited knowledge of it and was elated to see that everything worked right on the first try. Max was overwhelmed. He danced around his little four-feet-by-four-feet layout until he was breathless and talking a mile a minute. He put his little cheek down on his train table and studied Diesel and Spencer as they chuffed along the tracks.

He was having such a good time. I tried to get him to stop and eat some lunch but he wouldn’t. I finally persuaded him to get into his highchair, which I put beside his train table, and to have a few Cheez-Its and Cheetos. As soon as I went to the bathroom, though, he got out of his highchair all on his own and was running around his train table with his chin hovering less than an inch above the tracks.

He wanted me to swap Diesel’s freight cars with Spencer’s passenger coaches (or maybe it was the other way around), but he couldn’t figure out how to tell me what he wanted. He melted down with arms a-flailing, which lead to a timeout, which led to his hitting me, which lead to his trains’ being in timeout for the rest of the day.

We went upstairs and watched a Fireman Sam video so we could settle down for his nap. Boy, was I ever glad to put him into his bed so I could finally get some peace and quiet.

An hour later Baybay awoke with a number-two. I ran out of wipes while cleaning him up, and I left him on his changing table with firm instructions not to move while I fetched more wipes. What do you think he did?

Of course he moved and soiled his pajamas and changing table. I finished cleaning him up the best I could and then put him into the shower and washed him with Dial soap. He was in a great mood and seemed to accept that he couldn’t play with his trains and to understand why they were in timeout.

Finally, Mama got home and took over for me. She took him to Bogan Park and then they went to Mimi and Grandpa’s. Baybay’s spending the night with Mimi and Grandpa tonight, and, believe it or not, I already miss him.

He melted down last night at bedtime and scratched and hit me. After being warned, he continued his aggressive behavior and Mama and I sent him to his bed, which Mama rolled into his room. That would’ve been the first time he’s slept in his room in a couple of years, but I felt like I was punishing myself, too, so we got up and Mama picked him up from his bed and brought him back to our bed. Next time we send him to his room for the night, that’s where he’ll stay, but since it was his first time being sent to his room, we let him stay in there for only about fifteen to twenty minutes.

So Mama and I are off to bed to watch All in the Family and look forward to getting our Baybay back in the morning.

Better Day at School, No Treasure Box, Visits from Mimi & Granny

No Comments » Written on Thursday, January 26, 2012, at 9:37pm EST, by
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Today was much better than yesterday. Max and I went to school early for Doughnuts with Dad and had a pretty good time. Max ate one bite of a doughnut and wouldn’t drink any juice. He wanted to go run and play with Carter and see his other friends, like Noah, Mayzie, and Hannah.

While I was finishing our doughnuts Mrs Eileen told me she had something she wanted to share with me. What she had to share is something Max has said before, but it was especially gratifying to learn that he said it without my being nearby. Mrs Eileen said that when they were creating cards for us dads, they had to answer what they liked most about their dads. She said she asked Max what he liked most about me, and he replied that I was his best friend.

I love being my little fellow’s best friend, but I am his daddy first.

And in the blank that describes what my job is, the little fellow answer was, “to take care of me.” He was spot-on with that one.

When I picked him up I was surprised to learn that he didn’t get to pick a toy from his class’s treasure box. I shouldn’t have been surprised, though, because he pulled all three of his vegetables this week—two on Tuesday and one yesterday. The little fellow seemed to understand why he wasn’t privileged to choose a toy from the treasure box. The first thing that popped into my mind was to take him to Toys“R”Us and buy him anything he wanted, but grit my teeth and held back because that’s the way things are set up at school, and that is what he must follow if he’s to be a member of his class.

So we came home and he melted down about my opening the van’s door. He wanted to be able to open it, but I didn’t know and he had a bonafide tantrum in the van all by himself. Then when we got upstairs he melted down when I began to open the surprise he had for me. I put him in timeout and let him calm down enough for me to open it. It was a ceramic plate with his handprint in the middle. He began to melt down again and wanted to hold the plate, and though I let him grip it, I wouldn’t let go of it, which escalated his meltdown. Back to timeout he went. Twice.

Finally, I got him into his highchair for lunch, and Mimi stopped by to see her favorite grandson and get a hug and a kiss from him. After lunch I let him have a big Christmas-tree-shaped lollipop that Santa had left in his stocking. I was surprised to see him eat about half of it before putting it down on the wax paper I laid on his tray.

We went upstairs to watch Fireman Sam and settle down for the little fellow’s nap. It was a few minutes after 3:00 pm when I put him down, and fifteen minutes later when I went back upstairs I heard him talking to himself. I left him alone and in a few minutes all I could hear was his music, calm lullabies that he’s listened to since before he was born. He napped for nearly four hours, and when he awoke Granny was here. Granny, Mama, Mimi, and Grandpa went out to dinner tonight and I stayed home with Max.

Max had a big time with Granny, but he was too rambunctious with her. The boy has surplus energy and he just doesn’t know what to do with it. And neither do we. We could tell that his roughhousing was a turbo-charged ebullience and not anything aggressive.

After dinner the little fellow went with Mama and Granny to carry Granny home. He wanted ice cream at Granny’s and she was glad to give him some.

When Mama and our little buddy returned home he was as wild as a buck. Just now as I write this I hear Mama threatening to send him to his bed without a video if he doesn’t calm down.

We’re about to watch a Berenstain Bears video from bed. Hopefully, Baybay can settle down in a little bit.

Biting a Classmate

No Comments » Written on Wednesday, January 25, 2012, at 7:39pm EST, by
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Today Max bit a classmate’s finger and had to go see Mrs Anna, director of his school.

This morning he lost the privilege of playing with his trains for the rest of the day because he hit me. Then when he went to school I guess things didn’t improve. Mrs Eileen, his teacher, brought him to the van this afternoon and filled me in on the details.

Now Max can’t play with his trains tomorrow, either.

We went to Granny’s after school for lunch, and Granny let him know that biting is unacceptable. Then, after we came come Mimi stopped by and let him know that biting is unacceptable. Mama’s been on his case all evening, too, and we believe we have him straightened out on the biting.

Grandpa would have gotten onto him, too, but Grandpa is battling a stomach virus, which we guess he caught from us. In the twenty-one years I’ve known Grandpa, this is the first time I’ve known of him to have a stomach virus.

Mama and Max are playing in the floor as I write this, and we plan to be in bed by 9:00 pm with lights out by 10:00 pm. Max has a runny nose and needs some extra rest. Mama and I could use some extra rest, too.

I’m going to school with my favorite little fellow in the morning for Doughnuts with Dad.

Oh, how I hope for a better day tomorrow.

Pulled 2 Veggies, Wool Over Daddy’s Eyes

No Comments » Written on Tuesday, January 24, 2012, at 9:17pm EST, by
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Max awoke in a good mood around 8:20 this morning, so we had only a little time before we had to get him ready for school. Mama laid out a collared shirt and jeans for him. Grandpa made sure his jeans had razor-sharp creases. The little fellow looked so good that I had to take a few pictures.

While Max was at school I washed our van and helped Grandpa move a chifforobe from the top floor of his garage. The chifforobe was made in 1942 and is destined for Mimi and Grandpa’s house in South Georgia.

When I picked up Max at school he was telling the woman who brought him to the van that he was going to get (HO-scale) Spencer and Diesel today. I told him that if he didn’t pull a vegetable at school today, which is what he and his classmates have to do if they get into trouble, we’d go to the train store after school to pick up Spencer and Diesel. We bought these two engines a few weeks ago and left them to get digital decoders installed so Max and I could operate multiple trains from the same controller.

I asked Max if he pulled a vegetable today and he said he didn’t. He was right. He didn’t pull a vegetable. He pulled two of them, one for hitting and one for pushing. I didn’t know this until late this afternoon.

After school we went to TrainMaster and not only picked up Spencer and Diesel, but dropped off Thomas so he could get a decoder installed into him, too. And we bought enough track to put another oval around the oval he already has. We did all of this and he’d pulled two vegetables at school.

When it came time to leave TrainMaster Max had a minor meltdown. I told him that if he melted down again, he wouldn’t get to play with Spencer and Diesel today. Well, when we got home he hit me when he was getting out of the van. He was angry because I wouldn’t let him open Spencer and Diesel in our basement garage. As a punishment for hitting me I told him he’d have to wait until after his nap to play with Spencer and Diesel. It was while he was napping when I checked his school folder to confirm his behavior. I felt terrible. I had rewarded him richly today after he’d exhibited the same behavior that landed his trains in timeout all weekend.

Oh, well. I don’t know what else to do at this point other than keep on dishing out the punishment when the little fellow misbehaves. I’ll escalate the punishment, too, until his behavior is more reasonable.

As I write this he’s in Mama’s lap watching YouTube videos of the ship we’re going to sail on this summer. He’s in a great mood and understands that he has to have a good day at school tomorrow to be able to play with Spencer and Diesel when he gets home.

Tonight I told him that from now on when we ask him if he pulled a vegetable, he has to tell us the truth or he’ll get double the punishment.

Even though I had the wool pulled over my gullible eyes today, I’m still happy to have our little buddy home with us tonight. Poor ol’ Grandpa called to ask Max to spend the night with him, but the little fellow wouldn’t budge. I reckon he likes being with his mama and daddy about as much as we like being with him.

Staying with Mimi & Grandpa Until Early Afternoon, Back to the Train Tables at Home

No Comments » Written on Monday, January 23, 2012, at 9:09pm EST, by
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Mr Baybay Man got his trains back today after losing the privilege of playing with them all weekend due to misbehavior. He stayed with Mimi and Grandpa until about 1:20 this afternoon. I had a dental cleaning at 12:10 pm, and they kept the little fellow for me.

When I picked him up at Mimi and Grandpa’s, Grandpa had put him on an ottoman in one of their front windows so he could see me coming. Grandpa said Max had been asking about me this morning, and I was glad to get him back. He was in a great mood and was delighted to be able to play with his trains again.

He played with his trains for nearly an hour, and then we went upstairs to watch Fireman Sam and settle down for Max’s nap. He slept for about four hours and awoke in a good mood. He’s been rambunctious, willful, and bossy at times this evening, but he’s still been a joy to be with.

Max knew that tomorrow is Tuesday. He said it all on his own. I don’t know if he talked about this with Mimi and Grandpa, or if he remembered that I told him we could go to the train store on Tuesday. I probably didn’t learn my days of the week until first or second grade.

He and Mama are upstairs getting their baths and we’re going to try to get to bed by 9:30 pm so we can make tomorrow all it can be. Max is excited about going back to school tomorrow and about going to the train store when I pick him up.

And I’m excited about having my favorite little fellow in the whole world snuggle up with Mama and me in a few minutes.

Typical Sunday, Spending Night with Mimi & Grandpa

No Comments » Written on Sunday, January 22, 2012, at 10:17pm EST, by
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Max wanted to get the day started around 8:00 this morning. We watched a Fireman Sam video before heading downstairs. When we got downstairs Max and I put together his wooden Lightning McQueen puzzle and noticed it had a piece that was broken. When Max noticed it he said, “I have an idea. Let’s get some glue to fix it.” We couldn’t believe his amazing problem-solving skills!

It wasn’t long before we headed to Granny’s for breakfast. As usual, Max wasn’t much for eating this morning. After breakfast Max stayed with Granny while I did the grocery shopping and Daddy worked on pictures. She said he was a good boy while I was gone.

When we got home we played for a while before heading up for Max’s nap. Lil’ fellow must’ve been very tired this afternoon because he slept for a little over four hours. When he awoke he was in a good mood. We colored Fireman Sam pictures I got from the official website. We also put together his wooden Lightning McQueen puzzle.

Soon Grandpa called to get his snuggle buddy for the evening, Max was ready to go. We’re going to miss lil’ fellow tonight.

Images from Our Ride on the Blue Ridge Scenic Railway

No Comments » Written on Sunday, January 22, 2012, at 10:00pm EST, by
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Nine from our November 26 outing aboard the Blue Ridge Scenic Express:

Hanging Out With Mimi & Grandpa, Watching Fireman Sam

No Comments » Written on Saturday, January 21, 2012, at 9:15pm EST, by
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Max got around 9:00 this morning. We watched a Fireman Sam video before heading downstairs. We had to get creative with our activities since Max’s trains are still in timeout. We played with cars, puzzles, and read books. Grandpa brought us breakfast, and we really enjoyed it.

Around 11:00 this morning Mimi called and asked if she could come by for a kiss. When she left she took Maxipoo with her. Max gathered up a lot toys to take with him. While at Mimi and Grandpa’s he ate pizza and “chockit” yogurt.

Daddy tried to polish a scratch out of Mimi’s car’s windshield this afternoon, and I took a nap. Then the two of us went to The Olive Garden for a late lunch. Once home, I went to pick up lil’ fellow.

When we got home we enjoyed a little more Fireman Sam before Max took his nap. Max awoke from his nap in a very bad mood. I finally took him back upstairs and lay down with him.

It’s been a lazy rainy day around here. I’ll be glad when the rain stops.

We’re all about to turn in for a good night’s rest.

Behavioral Derailment

No Comments » Written on Friday, January 20, 2012, at 8:50pm EST, by
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Today was tough. Max was out of control for parts of the day and lost the privilege of playing with his trains both for both today and tomorrow. He also lost the privilege of watching a video before his nap this afternoon.

Max stayed with Mimi and Grandpa this morning while I ran errands, and I picked him up a few minutes after noon. Mimi and Grandpa had trouble getting Max into Bojangles this morning for breakfast, and then they had so much trouble with him inside the restaurant that they just left.

I don’t know why my favorite little buddy has been so volatile, but the consequences of his explosions are escalating. I told him that I enjoyed being his best friend, but that I am his daddy first.

Believe it or not, it saddens me for Max not to be able to play with his trains. It feels like something’s really off the rails around here.

Maybe tomorrow will be better. The weather is going to be cool and rainy, so we’ll have to figure out something he can do indoors.

Though his behavior has been atrocious at times today, he’s still had his moments of sweetness. Right now, the rain is pounding on our roof and the little fellow is cleaving right to me with both arms.

Honestly, parenting has been easier than I expected. Really.

Nursery Rhyme Dress-Up Day, Going on a Disney Cruise

No Comments » Written on Thursday, January 19, 2012, at 9:24pm EST, by
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Daddy said Max made a really cute “Jack” from the nursery rhyme “Jack and Jill” this morning. Mimi and Grandpa dressed Mr Max in his striped overalls, put a bandage on his head, and gave him a pail. Max was really excited about Nursery Rhyme Day today.

And he had a good day at school. He got a music stamp from music class and a bouncy ball from his class’s treasure chest. He was a very happy camper!

When Max got up from his nap, he enjoyed telling me about Nursery Rhyme Day. He told me what his classmates dressed up as and the fun things his class did today.

Jaddie and I had a big surprise for Max this evening, but we had to delay giving it to him due to his behavior. He hit Daddy when he got up. In order to get his prize, he had to turn his behavior around and keep it that way until 7:00 this evening, and he did. This evening we surprised Max with the news that the three of us are sailing aboard the Disney Dream this summer. Max was so excited! We introduced the idea to him by giving him a bag Disney goodies. Daddy showed Mr Max the ship, and that excited him even more. Max clapped and said, “Yay!”

Max has had a great evening. He’s enjoyed playing with his trains and with his new Mickey Mouse toys. Fun times!

We’re all about to go to bed early so we can get a good night’s rest.