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Staying with Granny, Seeing Uncle Larry, Evening at Home

Written on May 11th, 2012 by
Categories: Max

Baybay enjoyed another day of blissful toddlerhood. He got out of bed less than a minute after I did, and after watching Caillou and drinking some PediaSure, we headed to Granny’s. I had a doctor’s appointment and Granny kept the little fellow. It was our good fortune to see Uncle Larry while we were there.

When I returned to Granny’s I had some lunch and then cut the styrofoam sheeting for Max’s model railroad. Max “helped” me and rode his tricycle in Granny’s basement.

Max never would’ve left Granny’s if I hadn’t made him. That boy loves Granny. We came home, watched more Caillou, and then I put the little fellow into his bed for a nap. I believe he slept for about three-and-a-half hours.

He was in a great mood when he awoke. He played with his trains, ate dinner, and returned to his train tables. Surprisingly, when I went upstairs to take a shower, he followed me and got a shower with me.

Mama read a book or two to him and they watched Caillou together. Now we’re all about to go to bed together.

His latest phrase is “Everything is under control.” I don’t know where he picked up that phrase, but hardly anything is under control if he’s in the middle of it.

As I write this he and Mama are upstairs looking at our pictures from Chattanooga and Day Out with Thomas.

Muffins with Mom, Better Day for Us All

Written on May 10th, 2012 by
Categories: Max

On Monday evening I came down with a cold and today I think I’ve rounded the bin toward recovery.

We’ve all enjoyed a better day today than the past couple of days, though when I visited Max at his school yesterday, his genuine and hyper-enthusiastic response to seeing me walk into his classroom warmed my heart.

Mama went to school with Max this morning for Muffins with Mom. She and her favorite little fellow had muffins with the other kids and mothers before the schoolday began. Mama said Max was happy to have her there and that he began to tear up when she and the other mothers had to leave.

He had a good day at school, though, and we went to Granny’s afterward. Even though she spanked him yesterday, that’s where he said he wanted to go when we pulled away from his preschool. Baybay put Granny to work when he arrived. He got her to play hide-and-go-seek and “soccer” (just kicking a ball back and forth) with him.

Granny told me something special the little fellow said to her when I wasn’t with them. Max heard me coughing, and Granny told him that I had a sinus infection. Max said, “No, he just got a cold. I cheer him up.” He also apologized to Granny all on his own for hitting her yesterday.

That’s good stuff.

He and I came home a little earlier than we usually do because he had to have a nap. He and Mama went to Mama’s school this evening for a Junior Beta Club meeting, and Max got to stay in Mama’s classroom with Danielle and Lilianna, who are daughters of our friends Eddy and Jodi. Danielle, Lilianna, and Max had a good time together and the little fellow was in a great mood when he got home.

He got a shower with me tonight and then hopped into the tub with Mama to get the soap off. Now they’re upstairs watching Caillou and I’m about to join them.

Day Out with Thomas

Written on May 6th, 2012 by
Categories: Max

Baybay had a good time this weekend but was a royal pain in the butt for Mama and me. Our little buddy was obstinate, irritable, contrary, and demanding. I believe he was over-stimulated and tired, and I don’t know how those variables can be improved for our upcoming Disney vacation.

Max seemed like he enjoyed what we were doing, but he was wound up so tightly and was difficult to contain. Instead of exhibiting affection and warmth, he was aggressive and selfish.

And there were a bazillion more just like that at Day Out with Thomas. Kids were lying down on the asphalt—kicking, crying, and screaming—while parents threatened going to their cars, leaving, and spankings.

I don’t even want to analyze why my little buddy behaved the way he did this weekend. I’m just glad its over.

If our Disney vacation is as intensely negative as this weekend’s overnight trip to Chattanooga, Mama and I won’t make it back.

On a positive note, Max recognized his name in a TitleMax sign on our way home and pointed it out to us.

To a better tomorrow…

Pulling Veggies, Visiting Granny, Running Wide-Open

Written on May 1st, 2012 by
Categories: Max

I forgot to mention something that happened yesterday in our previous entry. Max wrote an M and an X. All on his own he said he wanted to do that, so we gave him a pencil and paper and he made his letters nearly as large as the paper.

It’s been a wide-open, nonstop day for Max and me. It’s been tons of fun for ol’ Maxiboy, though. He had fun at school but pulled a veggie, which is what he and his classmates must do when their behavior is unacceptable. He was talking even after Mrs Eileen, his teacher, told him and his classmates to be quiet and turned out the lights to get their attention.

When I picked him up from school I asked him where he wanted to go. He said he wanted to on an “adventure.” I asked him where was this adventure, and he said it was “over those trees.” I suggested that we go to Granny’s to work on his model railroad, and he said he wanted to go on his adventure first. I told him we’d have plenty of adventures at Granny’s.

I had lunch at Granny’s while Baybay ignored the grilled cheese Granny made for him. He was ready to play ball and didn’t want to hear about eating.

I left Max with Granny while I came back to our neighborhood and got Grandpa’s truck so I could go to Home Depot and get some two-inch-thick insulated sheathing. I took a bunch of other model railroad-building supplies with me, too.

When I arrived at Granny’s I unloaded it all and took it to her basement. I was soaked with perspiration and was tired, but Baybay was all excited and ready to get started building his model railroad. I told him I was calling it quits for the day and he complained loudly. But he eventually accepted it and continued on being his hyper, high-strung self.

I showed Granny the pictures of Max from last week’s Pajama Jam, Mama arrived to pick up Max, and the three of us headed home.

Baybay watched Caillou for a short while after we got home, and then he was back to full-blast. Mimi and Grandpa stopped by to see him because they’re going out of town tomorrow and won’t be back for about twelve days.

After Mimi and Grandpa left, Max and Mama went upstairs to get their baths and to lie down. Max went to sleep and in just a few minutes Mama and I will join him.

Slow Day

Written on April 30th, 2012 by
Categories: Max

After a really busy weekend, Max finally had a slow day. He and Grandpa went to Bojangles for breakfast, and then he stayed with Mimi while I got allergy shots. When I brought him home he asked for a snack, so I went ahead and had lunch with him.

Then we watched three episodes of Caillou and I put him down for his nap. He begged not to take a nap today, but I insisted on his taking one because of his extremely busy weekend. He must’ve been tired, because he slept for about four hours.

When he awoke we assembled his Polar Express train set and played with it. Then he and Mama went to Mimi and Grandpa’s for dinner, and he and Mama went to Staples. They got their baths shortly after getting home, and Mama read a few books to her favorite little fellow.

He came downstairs to see me and asked to see some videos from Disney World and our upcoming Disney cruise, so we watched a few of those. He was most intrigued by Space Mountain, but he won’t get to ride Space Mountain because of the minimum-height requirement of forty-four inches. I took a quick measurement of our little fellow’s height and it was close to thirty-nine inches.

We’re all ready to go to bed.

Church, Model Railroad Exhibit, Church Picnic with Mimi & Grandpa

Written on April 29th, 2012 by
Categories: Max

Baybay went to church with Mimi and Grandpa this morning, and Mama and I slept late and went to Granny’s for breakfast. The topic of breakfast was how much we missed Max. When Mimi and Grandpa brought the little fellow home, we took him to see North Georgia Modurail’s model railroad exhibit at Buford Presbyterian Church. I took him there Friday, but the trains weren’t running then. Today they were running. There was a boy who was a little older than Max at the exhibit. His name was Robbie, and he was calling Max by name because Max introduced himself to Robbie.

Max didn’t want to leave, but we could tell he was exhausted. We tried to appease him with ice cream, but he only melted down further when we took him to Baskin Robbins. We had to get him down for a nap because Mimi and Grandpa were taking him to a church picnic at Bogan Park at 5:00 this afternoon. Max certainly wasn’t fit for company before his nap.

He and Mama went upstairs, watched Caillou, and both of them lay down for a nap. While they napped a friend and client came over for some help with his iPhone, and Max got to see him before heading to the picnic with Mimi and Grandpa. Max was in a much better mood than before his nap.

Mama and I went out for dinner and have enjoyed a quiet evening at home. We miss our little buddy and look forward to having him home tomorrow.

Trains & Mama’s School’s Spring Fling

Written on April 27th, 2012 by
Categories: Max

Baybay’s having too much fun. We played with his HO and other trains this morning, and then we visited Buford Presbyterian Church to view North Georgia Modulrail’s humongous and magnificent model railroad layout. We were awed by the club’s exhibit. I was expecting something nice but simple, but what the club has done is stupendous and elaborate. The exhibit’s last day at Buford Presbyterian is Sunday, and we plan to take Max back on Sunday when the trains are actually running. Even though they weren’t running when we were there, we still had a good time and studied the layout for nearly an hour.

Baybay saw other young ones at the church and wanted to go check out what they were doing. He got a little upset when I wouldn’t let him follow the class back into their classroom. I eventually got him out of there, though, and from there we headed to Granny’s. The little fellow and I had lunch at Granny’s and I made a Walmart run for her. I played “soccer” (just kicking a ball back and forth) with him for a short while upon my return, and then I left him with Granny.

Mama picked him up after school and carried him to her school’s Spring Fling. He got to jump a couple of jumpers, slide down a couple of slides, spin in a big apple, and run and play with a lot of kids. They had a lot of carnival games and Max enjoyed picking out the prizes. He got his face painted, too, and he was excited about that. He chose a baseball.

Mama and Max and the rest of the Spring Fling revelers had to pack it in early because of a late-afternoon thundershower, and Max fell asleep on their way home.

I put him into his bed when he and Mama got home, and that’s where he is as I write this. He has a big day on tap for tomorrow, too, so it’s a good thing he’s getting his beauty rest. The little fellow has too much fun.

Great Day at School, Pajama Jam 2012

Written on April 26th, 2012 by
Categories: Max

Baybay and I got going around 8:00 this morning. We watched Caillou and he said he didn’t want to go to school, but once we got going he was excited about going.

He had a great day at school and got to pick out one or more toys from the treasure box. He had about three items. I don’t know if he got to pick all of those or if someone was generous with him.

When I picked him up from school he was ready to go to Granny’s. We couldn’t go to Granny’s, though, because Max had to get a good nap before tonight’s Pajama Jam at his preschool. I consoled him by letting him know that Granny was coming to see him today.

When we got home we played with his scooter. He had a minor accident and scraped his precious knee. He said it hurt—until I said we had to go inside and clean it—and then he said it didn’t hurt.

After a few minutes we came inside, had some lunch, and I let him watch a Caillou video while I got a shower. Then we watched another episode of Caillou together before I put him down for his nap. He slept for about three hours this afternoon. We had to wake him to get him ready to go sing with his classmates at school this evening.

Granny was here when the little fellow awoke, and he was glad to see her. The three of us and Mimi went to his preschool for tonight’s program and we all had a great time. Grandpa missed out because he’s still in South Georgia working on his house. Max and his classmates dressed in their pajamas and sang a handful of fun songs for us parents and grandparents. I must have had my finger on the camera’s shutter button the entire time, because in the thirty to forty minutes that the program lasted, I took 329 pictures.

On our ride home Max asked Granny to stay with us for a while, but she wanted to go on home before it was dark outside. The little fellow begged her to no avail, but Granny put the ball in his court by asking him to go spend the night with her. The little fellow said he was going to spend the night with his daddy, and Granny and I called him a little stinker. I hope I never forget that. That boy loves his mama and daddy.

Mama and Max are upstairs watching Caillou and I’m about to join them.

Good Day at School, Playing with Mimi, Early to Bed

Written on April 24th, 2012 by
Categories: Max

Baybay awoke shortly after 7:00 this morning when he realized I wasn’t in bed. I took him some PediaSure and got back into bed with him. He was tired and we watched The Polar Express before I took him to school.

He had a good day at school and was in a good mood when I picked him up. Mimi was waiting for him, so I took him to see her. They went to the mall for lunch and to play, and when they got home they played ball. I mowed Mimi and Grandpa’s grass while Max and Mimi were playing since Grandpa is out of town.

Mimi gave Max a bath, too. When he came home he was in his footed PJs and very tired. We watched some Disney park videos and had some dinner. Then Mama took him upstairs to watch Caillou and he quickly fell asleep.

The boy has more fun than his little body can stand.

He’s in our bed asleep and I’m looking forward to snuggling up with him in a few minutes.

Catch Air, Ice Cream, Railroad Tracks, & Caillou

Written on April 23rd, 2012 by
Categories: Max

Max enjoyed a fine day, and I enjoyed it with him. I got out of bed before the little fellow awoke, so I had almost enough time to get something to drink before I heard his feet hit the floor and run to the stairs to come find me. I got him some PediaSure and we went back upstairs, piled into our warm bed (it was cold here this morning), and watched Caillou.

Then we headed to Catch Air for a good two-and-a-half hours of fun. En route to Catch Air we passed the Honda dealership where we bought our van. Max said, “That’s where we bought my van, Daddy.” And then he mentioned that it was dark when we bought it. That was in the middle of October of last year. That’s an amazing detail for a three-year-old to remember.

Max made sure I was watching him every second. “Daddy, look at me,” he’d say. We had a number-two (well, I should say Max had one) and got that squared away, but it was the second number-two I wasn’t prepared for. That’s when we left and came home for a fresh diaper. Baybay said, “I want something to eat.” I said, “Well, son, we have to change you first.” And he replied, “No, I want something to eat.” I gave him some crackers to eat while I changed him.

Then we watched more Caillou before I put the little fellow down for his nap. I believe he napped for a little more than three hours.

Then he and Mama went out for ice cream and went to the railroad tracks in Buford to see if they could see any trains. They didn’t get to see any and it was too cold for them to stay, so they came home, got their baths, and are now upstairs watching more Caillou. I’m looking forward to snuggling up with them on this cool night.